Relationship Blues

   Your words can get you in alot of trouble if you speak in the heat of the moment. We should have a time delay before we speak when we are upset like they do on live radio, it sure would help to keep us out of hot water with our partner. Words thrown out when you are angry can never be unspoke, how we wish they could be.
   These times in our relationships cause harm untold, when we utter mean things to our partner it is usually a buildup of lots of  little things in our lives that go unchecked. We are emotion driven creatures and once our emotions run wild it seems we have no control.
   Feeling regret after  mean words are spoken has to be taken one step further and put into action, we have to tell our partner how deeply sorry we are for having said the things we said. It will not replace the hurt those words caused but it may start us on the road to forgiveness, keep in touch.

Relationship Blues

   Watched a Sally Field and James Garner movie last night, good movie, in the end he got the girl saying he was a faithful man. We have all been thru relationships where that is not the case, having a faithful partner we know we can trust is like a cool drink of water on a hot day, man that`s good.
   Keeping our partner first in all we do goes a long way in the straying department. When we start paying more attention to everything else in our lives than what is going on with our partner things start to go downhill in our relationship and can spiral down so fast pretty soon we have lost what we want the most.
   We have to take time every day to notice our partner and make sure they know how important they are to us, kind words, a touch, a helping hand, easy things to do but very important, keep in touch. 

Relationship Blues

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Relationship Blues

   Hope all went well the weekend, mine did. Not enough time to do it all. Today my partner took the day and did what she does when she needs some time apart, missed her company but everyone needs some time to themselves.
  We should pay attention to our partners, then we will notice the many swings we all have and let them flow. Being apart for a short time and knowing we miss our partner when they are gone helps keep us on track, keep in touch.

Relationship Blues

  It`s cool enough now to open the windows and let some fresh air in. Our relationship with our partner needs a little fresh air once in a while too.
   Doing the same things day in and day out can get pretty boring, we should try new things with our partner and see what works, keep in touch.

Relationship Blues

   Half way thru the week already, time flies at an ever increasing speed. Heading into fall in most places, then the cold winter is upon us.
    With summer almost over we get a chance to look back and see if we are happy about what we have accomplished during the summer. Probably got alot done but did we work on making our partner as happy as we could have. We do some things right but others, well, should have thought some of that stuff thru a little more, keep in touch.

Relationship Blues

   My partner is already asleep, a little restless tonight, does`nt happen often but there you go. In the quiet of the night you have a chance to reflect on things, watching my partner sleep gives me a good feeling, all must be well.
   Already into the work week that part just repeats itself, our relationship with our partner gets better with time, having history with someone gives us time to refleck back on all the things we have been thru, good and bad, we usually remember the good more.
   Time keeps rolling and with a partner to share the passing of it our lives take on meaning, keep in touch.